Redneck Medical Journal Entry by Bubba

Bubba wrote the following after he and Joe went oystering for medicinal purposes, I'm sure.

Oysters are good for your health. First you benefit from the salt air when you ride in the boat to get to where they are. Then you benefit by walking in the mud.  That works leg musclea and your heart beats faster.Then there's the salt spray in your face back to the landing.  When you shell them, you exercise your hand muscles,arm muscles, and chest muscles.  Also when you eat them, if your digestive system is not right it will clean you out.   Then you will be ready for for a new beginning. From Dr. Bubba.    Sent from my iPad

Joe's new boat was deemed "perfect" for oystering.

Bubba is working hard to stay healthy.

And so is brother Joe.....

In fact, it made them feel so good that they will probably do it again soon!

How Long Until Another Rainbow?

Well, we had a couple of weeks of Christmas festivities and returned home on a Saturday morning to a house still full of Christmas "stuff".  Bubba left after we unpacked the trailer to go with his brothers to look at a boat that Joe was hoping to purchase.  And I was left alone missing Amelia already.

Amy's old dollhouse is back in place.  When Amelia is here, it usually sits on the coffee table or in the middle of the living room floor with all kinds of toys scattered around it.

Amelia's craft table sits awaiting her return.  She loves to cut and paste, color and paint, staple and stick.

  

Our third bedroom is Amelia's room.  The stickers on the wall are starting to come loose, but we spend time before she settles down at night to get them stuck back.  One night when we were talking before I read her story she told me, "Nana, I think my bedroom is beautiful."

Someone asked me the other day what was the one thing that Amelia got to eat at grandma's that she didn't get anywhere else.  Well, it is not something to eat, it's something to drink.  We always stock plenty of "yoo-hoos" before she comes to visit.  Amy told me not to let her have too many and I didn't.  We still have one left!  Look, it says its rich in calcium and vitamin D right on the carton!

This is where Amelia plays bookstore/library.  She calls her patrons in one at a time (me or Paw-Paw or Amy if she's here) and allows them to get one picture album of her baby pictures.  She has to do a lot of writing and calclulating before you can leave with the book.  No matter what we are doing, if she calls out that she is ready for a customer we have to respond.

This is a sample of the paperwork required to get a book.  The first line is my age (64).  Next is my name. (Note the curls she has started putting on her lower case 'a'.)  Next she asked my dad's name and the final question was who I was married to.  

It is not so easy to get a good book these days.

This is what I was referring to in the title of this blog. Amelia loves to draw rainbows.  Now I'm looking forward to February when we see our precious granddaughter again!

A Cousin Reunion

We arrived at Frank Jackson State Park to find Joe, Judy, John waiting for us.  Amelia, who had not seen John in two years, jumped out of the truck and ran to give him a big hug.  This, of course, was totally unexpected by John who immediately blushed with embarassment  I think at that point he was beginning to wonder what lay ahead for him in the next few days.

After the delicious lunch that Judy had prepared we all went to their trailer which is quite a bit bigger than ours so that John and Amelia could get to know one another and enjoy playing together.  Let me also include that it was icy cold and windy all week long so playing outside was out of the question.  In no time at all they were having a good time together.  John (age 7) had received an i-pad for Christmas and Amelia had her mom's.  They began to compare games and take turns swapping them back and forth.  I was afraid that Amelia was taking advantage of John, but he assured me, "She has some cool things on her i-pad that I don't have."  There were so cute together.  We often observed Amelia resting her head on John's shoulder while he showed her something on the i-pad.  They played inside together for most of two days without any whining, tears, or melt-downs.  I give John a lot of credit because he is older and was very patient, but Amelia did well at sharing and taking turns also.  Kudos to all parents involved!

Thursday we carried them to a Chuck-E-Cheese for lunch and games.  After pizza, they took their tokens and mostly went to different things to play rather than going around together.  It was a good day although an adult should be tranquilized before going into that place.  It sure was noisy, but a good time anyway.  That night as we left their trailer, Amelia hugged Joe and Judy and then she turned to John, who, this time was waiting for his hug.

That night I was so tired when putting Amelia to bed.  She has a way of stalling the process somewhat.  During a lengthy conversation about our day she told me, "Nana, John doesn't like girls, but he loves me!"  Also in this conversation while she rested her head on my chest, she said, "Nana, you're so soft and wonderful." and then after her prayer and "Jesus Loves Me" and "Sweet Dreams", she called me back again, "Nana, I just want to give you one more hug."  She sure has a tight hold on our hearts.

The next morning both sets of grandparents headed to carry their little ones back to their parents.  We met Amy in Mobile and Amelia was very happy to see her.  We were grateful that they allowed us to have her for this week.  I hope that Amelia and John will be able to have more good times together.  They are two very special children.

Paw-Paw and Amelia enjoy a rousing game of Hi-Ho-Cherrio

Christmas Continues

I've postponed writing about the rest of our Christmas activities because I just wasn't sure what I wanted to write.  I must say that I enjoyed Christmas this year more than last and that I really have nothing negative to note.  Good news, right?  Last year was a little melancholy for a Christmas blog.  


Bubba and I were at home alone on Christmas Day, which was really fine. I had to go to work the next day and we were tired from the past weekend which involved camping in Opp so it was a low key, but enjoyable day.

I totally surprised Bubba with an i-pad.  I bought it Thanksgiving in Baton Rouge, had Darryl set it up for him after we went to bed at night, and hid it in a clothing drawer ever since.  During the past month, I don't know how many times Bubba said to anyone who would listen, "I don't want anything to do with any computers."  To say the least I was a little nervous about the reception this gift would receive.  I was the one surprised.  He has taken to it like a duck to water.  By the end of the day, he was  e-mailing back and forth with his brother and sister and Amy.  He discovered the world of Netflix and is enjoying the number of documentaries that are available to watch.  He uses GoogleEarth and Thursday night enjoyed Facetime with Amelia.  He is learning to Google things he is interested in.  I want to put a book on it for him, but so far I've not talked him into that.  It was a good day and we were looking for Amy, Darryl, and Amelia to come on Thursday.

Bubba smoked a ham (his second) and we enjoyed a Christmas Meal together when they arrived.  Amelia was eager to open presents as soon as possible so we obliged her.

Our big present to Amelia was a Camper that is an accessory to her Loving Family Dollhouse.  It opens up and has a bathroom, beds, a living area, driver's seats, etc.  We included the grandma, grandpa, and little blonde granddaugter with it for playing camping trip.  It seemed to be a hit.

As with any toy, it required some assembly which Paw-Paw was delegated to do.  Amelia appears to be appreciative of anything she is given as a gift.  Now, she can't possibly "like" everything she receives (who does?), but she knows how to make the giver feel good.  (Smart strategy, right?)

She comes with lots of hugs and kisses.  They are very addictive.

On Saturday, Amy and I went to see "Le Mis" at Pier Park Movie Theater.  We had seen it together on stage many years ago and have been looking forward to the movie.  We were not disappointed.  If you're not big on musicals, you should try this one.  It is amazing how involved you can become in a story told entirely in song.  By the time it got to the end, I was almost doing my ugly crying.  I was not the only one, you could hear people sniffing all other the theater.

Amy and Darryl returned home on Sunday leaving Amelia with us for the next week.  Sunday was a restful day.  I watched "Polar Express" with Amelia and we ate popcorn.  I'm drinking coffee from my mug Amelia gave me for Christmas.  It is a nice big mug with some of her artwork on the side.  I love it.  Amelia loves popcorn.  She will eat the whole big bag of microwave popcorn by herself.  She accompanies it with hot chocolate or chocolate milk.

Monday was spent getting ready to go camping.  Amelia and Paw-Paw had some quality time together that day.  She loves the tire swing that he built her.

Amelia wanted to take Paw-Paw's picture on the swing.  She's a pretty good photographer.

She is really contemplating this flower she picked.  She explained that it was a special flower with special powers -- it can make it snow.  She handled it very carefully as she explained that you have to spin around very fast, make a wish, and then when you throw it on the ground it will start to snow.  She never demonstrated how it worked, but she was very sincere about it.

Paw-Paw also introduced Amelia to a new way to enjoy ice cream.  They got two spoons and dug into a half gallon of Blue Belle Nutty Chocolate.  All Amelia could say was "ummmmmm."  They did a lot of damage to that half gallon.

We finished up the day by loading the camper and preparing for an 8:00 getaway to Opp, AL, and our favorite camping spot.  

Joe and Judy and grandson John were going to be waiting for us.  Judy promised Ham, Black-eyed Peas, Potato Salad, Sweet Potatoes, Turnip Greens and Fried Cornbread. Yum!! Maybe that is why this is our favorite camping spot?

A Festive Christmas Gathering

There's no place like home for the holidays.   For several years now, Brother Joe and his wife, Judy, have opened their home to Joe's side of the family for a Christmas gathering.  They go all out to see that everything is just perfect and that everyone has a good time.  This year was no exception.  This year we took the camper up to our favorite park and spent the weekend.  We arrived on Friday in time to help them with a few last minute chores.  Then Friday evening we went back to the camper for a quiet evening and a bowl of chili while they went to choir practice.

I wanted a little tree with lights for the camper, but they were all gone by the time I decided that I wanted one.  I found this little one at the Dollar Store and was actually pleased with how it turned out.  I had planned to put out our sign with garland on it and hang our new Christmas lights from the awning, but the weather discouraged all attempts to be festive.  When we arrived it was so cold and windy.  We did what we had to do outside and then were happy to get inside to the warmth of the trailer.  It was so windy that we had to put boards on our outside rug so that it would not blow away.

This was our view out the window we awoke on Saturday morning.  Can you see the squirrel on the tree?

Two big tables were set and ready.

Judy spent three days making candy and cookies for her guests.  

Bubba's sister, Azalea, and her husband, Marshall, were among the first to hit the table full of Christmas goodies.  They have a camping trailer that they haven't used for years.  We're trying to get them to get it in working order so they can join us on some of our outings.

As family begins to arrive, the presents begin to pile up on the Dirty Santa table.  This always proves to be a lot of fun.

Joe tends the smokers which are filled with chicken and ribs.  

Finally the food is ready and everyone
gets in line, eager to partake of the delicious meal of Smoked Ribs & Chicken, Baked Potatoes, Baked Sweet Potatoes, Baked Beans, Salad, Deviled Eggs, and Rolls.

What is so nice when this family gathers is that we just take up where we left off.  Some we haven't seen in such a long time, but that doesn't matter we're still family.  Jody and Melissa brought Melissa's parents from Canada with them this year.  They were such pleasant people.  Now we know where Melissa gets that from.  Bill and Jean were a welcome 

addition to our group.

For dessert there was Coconut Cake, Fruit Cake, Carrot Cake, Cinnamon Pound Cake, and Pecan Pie.  

After the children opened their presents, it was time for the adults to play Dirty Santa.  Our niece Leigh got Paula Deen Frying Pans which she got very excited about and wanted to keep.  She kept them hidden most of the time so no one would steal them from her.

Nephew Andy looks pleased with his box of "tupperware".  Don't worry Andy, I want that "tupperware".  I got it too!

Bubba got a charcoal chimney which is something he wanted.  It was a fun game with some pretty good items.

After Dirty Santy everyone began to gather up their things to leave.  We went back to the trailer for a little rest and then returned that evening to eat with Joe and his family that was still there.

The next day we got up and went to church with them and enjoyed their church choir's cantata very much.  Sunday afternoon was spent visiting.  Rest assured that more eating was involved.

The family owes Joe and Judy a big thank you for their hosting this gathering.  It takes a lot of time and preparation to put something like this together.  It's important to come together as a family when you have the opportunity.  This year we missed Azalea's girls and their families and Amy, Darryl, and Amelia who couldn't make it this time.

I started off by quoting the line from the Christmas song, "There's no place like home for the holidays."  To me, home is wherever family is.  This time home happened to be Joe and Judy's.  Thank you both so much for your love and hospitality!

"No Tree," She Said

"I'm not going to put up a Christmas tree!"  I assert every year as Christmas approaches. It just doesn't seem to hold the "magic" that it did in years past.   And then, just as we do every year, we drag out the tree and the "magic" comes back as we prepare.  I guess that with the tree come the memories and that is part of the "magic".

Bubba opens a box containing the first ornament on the tree.  He is used to my changing my mind about the tree.

This ornament was added to the tree on Amy's first Christmas.  I can remember standing in front of the tree holding her in a little yellow nightgown while she held this ornament.

This ornament is one of many that Amy gave us through the years.

I love the little handmade ornaments

that Amy made when she was a little girl.

Amelia brought this creation to me when she came for Christmas last year.  It's kind of nice to have the decorations made by Amy when she was four next to the one made by Amelia when she was four.

College student Amy went through a cross stitch phase and this ornament was added to our tree.  The tree is full of contributions from her.  There are also ornaments that were made by friends.  The tree skirt was made by a friend just for us.  Can you imagine how much time was spent on that project?  There are ornaments that my mother bought for us while she was on vacation when we were first married.  (They are 46 years old!)

And, of course, when we hung this ornament we were reminded again of our precious Archie.  He always enjoyed the Christmas tree.  

The couch was his resting place while he looked at the lights.  For his last Christmas, we got him a nice soft bed for the floor because he could no longer jump up on the couch.

This nativity scene has become a treasured part of our decorations.  Bubba cut the wood out and I painted it.  I liked it because I knew a child could play with it without any fear of anything getting broken.  I had one in my Sunday School class and the kids enjoyed it.

This is our mantle.  I kept it pretty simple this year.  The wreath was made by a very talented woman I worked with at Calhoun C.I.  The reindeer were made by Bubba back in the 80's.  

This gold nativity scene is really old.  When I was growing up, my parents owned a business and every year they would have a wonderful Christmas party at our house for the employees.  My mother was very creative and she decorated the house like a professional.  She usually placed these figures in front of a piece of draped purple (for royalty) with the large Bible opened to the Christmas Story in Luke.  I've had it for years and always put it out somewhere.  When Amy was a little girl, we had a coffee table with a shelf that I could place the scene on.  I once found some pieces of tangerine drying in the manger.  I asked Amy about it and she replied, "I was feeding the Baby Jesus some of my tangerine."  I can still see her in her little red pajamas with her pony tail swinging.

Last week while I was doing some shopping at Kohl's, I saw a quilted red table runner with holly on it that I really liked so I bought it.  When we started decorating I put the runner on the bar.  Later that day after I put the table cloth on the dining table, I found a table runner just like the one I had bought.  I had forgotten about it!  Then I put it on the table with some candles and greenery and thought it looked pretty good.  Later when I looked at some pictures from last year I found a picture of the table fixed exactly the same way.  Oh well, I'm glad I bought the second one because it looks really good on the bar.  I just hope I don't buy a third one next year because I really don't know where I would put it.

Well, the tree is out and the decorating is over with.  I have nothing fancy or expensive decorating my house, but what I do have is priceless.  With every ornament hung and every decoration placed, a precious memory is revived, a loved one is remembered, and thanks is given for them all.

My wish for all who read this blog is that in the midst of the shopping and cooking and going and planning, that you will take a few minutes to reflect on what Christmas is really about.  Be thankful for the Gift that was given to us all.  Take time to enjoy the blessings of the season.  Make new memories and cherish the old.

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

Becky  

Oysters, Gelato, Good Times at St. George Island

What better way to celebrate my birthday than to meet Joe and Judy at St. George Island?  It took them five hours to get there but I think they agreed that it was worth it.  It is a beautiful place to spend a weekend (or longer).  We got a tantalizing e-mail from Joe Thursday evening that had a picture of water and the message, "Wish you were here."  I e-mailed back, "Where?"  It turns out they were able to get away on Thursday so they were there a day ahead of us.

When we arrived Friday around noon, we ate lunch together.  Bubba had smoked his first ham and we were eager to try it in sandwiches.  It was so good.  After lunch, Joe and Bubba were anxious to try oystering from their kayaks so they suited up and headed out.  Judy and I visited a while and then went for a long walk on the beach.  The weather was perfect -- cool, but not too cool.  

Meantime, Joe and Bubba, had launched their kayaks and paddled to an area that looked like there would be an oyster bed.

They had a lot of fun with no mishaps.  They actually got a nice size bucket of oysters.  Although I have nothing to do with raw oysters, they pronounced that they were good but very small. 

 Later that evening we went out for supper.  We wanted to take Joe and Judy to Captain Snook's which is one of my favorite places to eat seafood.  That plan didn't work out as Captain Snook's was closed for the season.  Then we chose to eat at The Hut.  Bubba and Joe had the mullet basket and Judy and I chose the shrimp and grouper basket.  I still like Captain Snook's best, but The Hut was still a good birthday meal.

When we returned to the campsite that evening, we built a fire, roasted marshmallows and enjoyed visiting for a while.  Bubba and I are probably not much fun in the evening.  We are so used to going to bed early and getting up early that we usually fade out before it gets too late.  (We plan to lose this habit when I retire.)

The next morning after Bubba brought me my coffee in bed, he went outside for breakfast -- hot chocolate and oysters.  How gross!  He seemed to enjoy it though.  

A lady at The Hut told us that downtown Apalachicola was having an outdoor market Saturday and we decided that we would go.  I was waiting outside when Joe and Judy came over to wish me happy birthday with a card and a balloon.  

We shopped and shopped, but did not buy a thing from the vendors set up on the street.  I saw things that I liked, but I have reached a point where I want to get rid of "things", not add to them.  Just wait until I retire.  There will be a very big yard sale.

Judy treated us to our first gelato.  It was in a rustic building downtown.  I wish I had taken a picture of it.  There were so many flavors to choose from that it was almost impossible to decide.  Finally I chose Coconut White Chocolate for Bubba and me.  Judy got Coconut and Joe, out of all those choices, picked vanilla.  Bubba used to be "dull" like that but he has livened up some in that area.

We went back to the campsite for some more of those good ham sandwiches. Then we all went for a walk down to the Apalachicola Bay side of the island.

Sadly, we all got up Sunday morning and headed our separate ways.  It was a great weekend in every way -- good times, good food, and good company.  I couldn't have wished for a more enjoyable birthday.  While we were out Saturday, Amelia called me on the cell phone and sang "Happy Birthday" to me.  That was the icing on the cake.  Every time we have a weekend like this, we are grateful for the opportunity to spend this kind of time with family.  We're already looking forward to next time.  Thanks everyone for making my birthday so special.